What's the Countdown For?

So many people have been asking me about the countdown on the site and it bewildered me that I didn't explain why it's posted. Silly me.

The countdown is for the company's 3rd birthday! Crazy, right? It seemed like yesterday I was just getting started while all of my friends were laughing it me. I love my friends. 

There will be a celebration of some sort but also many changes to the company and the site as well -- all of which I am excited about.

Even though we're turning 3, in Internet years, that's, like, 40 so I think it's time to step things up. Be sure to sign up for the Wingman Labs below if you want to get exclusive content leading up to the launch. Our next email goes out tomorrow.

Jamaica, Inspiration and the 5 Ways to Attract Women

One of the most beautiful places in the world.I wrote this while I was in Jamaica last week, helping prepare for and attending my grandfather’s funeral. 

I was going to share this with my Labs members but decided to share this one with the world. 

It’s more raw than my normal writings and hope you appreciate that. 

There is always a lesson to be learned from every experience. Here’s is what I learned from mine. 

DC Wingman Guide Coming Soon

We're almost done with the guide after being in DC a few weeks ago. There is a lot of information and cool stats to take in and we want all of it to be organized to create the most comprehensive piece possible.

But first, I want to share with you a testimonial from a guy who drove up from North Carolina to work with us in DC for ONE day that weekend. We're excited to provide these kinds of results so quickly for our guys and at the same time, we're not surprised. This is what we strive to do everyday.

We can't wait to reveal the next city for March and the rest of the year. Stay tuned!

"For years, I was uncomfortable meeting women at bars and other public places - I couldn't talk to women I was attracted to. I knew in theory what had to be done, but try as I might, I could not put it into practice. So I decided to work with Thomas in person, for a day. After just a couple hours,  I was talking to women, and getting their contact information! As the night went on, I initiated conversations with many women, including groups, and grew more confident. Thomas talked me through the mechanics of a conversation - how to read people and yes, flirt! He even gave helpful pointers on fashion. I am glad to have worked with Thomas, and highly recommend his services!" - RS, North Carolina

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How To Meet Women on Public Transportation


Yes, you can meet women on the bus.I want to give you guys a preview of the kind of content I send to the Wingman Labs, my weekly newsletter.

What I like about the members of the Labs is they reply and we get into some great conversations, helping me create even better content for them. 

I suggest you sign up as I'll be sending really cool stuff over the next few weeks [you can sign up at the end of the post].

And now, enjoy this free sample.

Have the Perfect Valentine’s Day Date

It’s a known fact that men put too much pressure on themselves on this day. Personally, I’m not a big fan of the commercialization but can appreciate the significance of the day. 

Today, there are still guys who try to go above and beyond to impress their dates -- unknowingly setting expectations for future dates and holidays -- and above all, not knowing how to do it right.

How Past Relationships Can Empower Your Future Ones

Let's talk about two things you'll need to do if you will ever move forward in your life.

And find someone to move forward with.

Have you ever watched the TV show Taboo? It’s a really interesting show that talks about the the most fascinating, controversial things that some people and cultures do.

They had one episode where they showed various cultures' way of celebrating a boys “transition to manhood.”

Some really crazy stuff.

However, in their culture, it’s a requirement or else your life as a man will not be “pure.”

To be “pure” in the present and future, you need to release the “toxins” of the past.

News regarding Breakup Recovery

It's time to close the wound and move forward.After recovering from the flu and reading emails from you guys for the past week, I’ll post this short message.

It’s clear to me that there isn’t any solid material on recovering from a breakup. We focus so much of our time on getting into relationships when there are just as many people out there getting OUT of them.

I’ve literally had one of my new clients have incredible breakthroughs with his recent ex and I talked to him literally days before.