Project Infinity is Now the New Blog of the Professional Wingman

So, clearly, there are some changes here. Welcome to the new location of the Professional Wingman and it's blog. It should take about 24 hours for the Professional Wingman site to change but you can now look here for EVERYTHING - coaching, articles, announcements, newsletter sign-ups and whatever else I didn't mention.

This is just one of the changes that will be happening over the next couple of weeks. Stay tuned for more.

Oh, by the way, I'll be back to writing articles this week, which I'm sure you guys are happy about. Here are some things you can look forward to:

A reintroduction to the Boston nightlife
A contest
Looking for a potential partner in crime

Thanks for being so patient with me as I try to get things together here. It'll be worth it.

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Watch Pokin' Holes Tonight

So tonight, I will be taking some serious notes as a few young entrepreneurs dissect and talk about how I can take my business to the next level. As far as I know, the show will be streamed live at around 7 tonight so look out for my tweets.

For more information about this, check out the DARTBoston site for details.

This is something that I have been looking forward to for weeks and I hope I can find the answers to what I should be doing with my business.

And we all can move on with our lives and I can resume helping you and others.

Update from The Professional Wingman & the Future of Project Infinity

So for those who don’t know already, I have started a sign up for the Professional Wingman newsletter, to be called the State of the Wingman. For the devout readers who would like a little bit more of what I give, including insider topics, secrets, advance copies of future blog posts, special deals and promotions of services and news about my business and upcoming events, this would be something you’ll want to look into.

Sign up here if you haven’t done so already.

By signing up, you get a free gift that will be a good start to improving the life you have already. It’s personally something that I have used for over a year – and continue to use to this day.

There are a few changes going on over at the Professional Wingman site, such as revealed pricing, better descriptions of what I actually do and what I have to offer. I thought it would be better to be more transparent and have you understand exactly what I can do to help you and why you should invest in me.

With my birthday being this week (tomorrow actually), I already have a jam-packed week ahead. While I have been managing birthday festivities, I have also been working with a few people to help me better determine the future of my business and what direction it should go. Being my first business, it’s been a learning experience the whole time. As more opportunities come, more problems occur and solutions have to be figured out. I feel as though I have reached a tipping point where the next solutions I figure out will determine in the future of the business so I have been taking it seriously and meeting with peers to finding possible answers.

Consider this week as more of a business version of soul-searching for me. But you know me. I am very transparent with who I am and what I am doing and I think it’s important for you to know as well. Especially for those who may want to start a business – or already has a business and may have similar problems – this may be something you’ll want to pay attention to.

So for this week, I have decided to seek opinions from other Boston-based young entrepreneurs about what I should do to take my business to the next level – if possible. Last night, I had a chance to sit down with Cort Johnson from DARTBoston to think about some problems that I (will ) have going into the future and we decided record it for others to see. Enjoy!

This Thursday evening (@ 7PM), I will be able to talk with a few cool young entrepreneurs about what I can do to continue to build business and you will get a chance to see their feedback as well.

Check out DARTBoston for more details so you won’t miss out on this.

And of course, once everything is figured out, you will all be the first to know. I thank you for your continuous support and I will be back very soon to provide some killer stuff!

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Changes and Announcements Coming after July 4th Weekend

It's been a crazy few weeks as I have been all over the place doing things concerning The Professional Wingman and my life as a whole. As I type this post, I am in one of my best friends' apartment in the Upper West Side of NYC. There is a lot of stuff I have planned in the future and I am seeking professional advice from some important people in my life and other really cool people.

After this weekend, I will have some really awesome stuff in-store for everyone as I continue to push this blog and The Professional Wingman to it's limit. I am still availabile for consulting, in NYC as well as Boston so if you'd like to contact me, you can just email me or contact me through Twitter, as I will be changing the way I run TPW in the near future.

I'm excited about these changes and you should be too! Change in this world is a good thing.

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Style Series – Taking Risks

This is the final post of my rather brief Style Series. You can check out the others here:

The Importance of Layering
The Real Meaning of Dressing Casual
Style Series - Peacocking vs. Accentuating

What does that even mean?

It doesn’t mean that you can wear whatever you want (sorry to those who were hoping sweats can be cool again).

But with some knowledge, experience and a good wardrobe foundation, you can afford to mix things up and take some risks to push your look.

If done successfully, you have the potential to become a trendsetter.

But that’s not the real reason why you would even bother taking risks, right?

No, it’s to create YOUR own style.

Your style can be hard to replicate. Your style can be hard to pull off on other people. But most importantly, your style says a lot about the kind of person you are and the amount of confidence you can exude.

I wanted to keep this short because there really isn’t much more to it. I’ll show you some pictures of what I mean.

Are you ready to take risks?

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Looking to Team Up With the Social Man

Do you know Christian Hudson? If you haven't heard about Christian Hudson, you're about to. He is THE "secret weapon" to some very big dating and “pickup” professionals and he's about to hit the scene BIG time.

Back in 2005, he helped start Charisma Arts, which was the biggest pickup bootcamp company in the world under his leadership. He left the game in 2006, but came back last year to start teaching clients again after receiving a lot of referrals from his personal coaching clients.

I just watched an incredible video he put together; you're DEFINITELY going to want to check it out. He explains some things about dating that are pretty mind-blowing, even for me, regarding your confidence and your natural "instincts." These instincts that he talks about are what I teach my clients to be more aware of when they go out to different social environments. You're going to learn a lot from this, and if you've ever wondered things like...

- How some guys can just walk up to a girl and say "Hi" and get great responses
- Why a girl rejected you, or why she rejected your compliment
- How you could be just as confident and easygoing talking to a model as you could a toddler

...then you'll definitely want to watch this.

Become Unbreakable

And let's be clear about something: this is not just about getting women – and the kinds of beautiful women you want. This is about being able to handle any social situation, at any time, in any environment.

All of the really good stuff starts at about 1 minute and 33 seconds into the video - so I would grab a notebook and take some notes.

And by the way, what he explains and how he explains it is NOT complicated. In some cases, it's as easy as making eye contact for two seconds longer when you say something to a girl. Many of my clients think that I am full of it when I first mention things like this. Then when it actually works, they become believers. A lot of my own secrets are right here.

If you're serious about being not just good, not just great, but truly unbreakable when it comes to having control of your social life and with women, then you have to watch this video.

Become Unbreakable

If any of this is confusing or you think that it’s not that easy, I’d love for you to comment or email me.

What Christian Hudson teaches is legit. So much, that I am hoping to work with him in the future because it’s not often that I get to meet someone who shares the same teaching techniques and positive mindset that I do when it comes to dating.

Let me know what you think.

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The Professional Wingman/AXE Hair Tweetup (6/24 @Dillon's)

For the first time, The Professional Wingman & AXE Hair are joining forces to help guys update their look and get girl-approved hair, just in time for summer!

Come to Dillon's and hang out on the patio where you can get some free AXE Hair products and get answers for what women find attractive from one of the fastest up and coming dating coaches in Boston, Thomas Edwards - also known as The Professional Wingman. Get to learn some style, fashion and hair tips that will get women to give you that second look you've been wanting.

Girlfriends, wives and women alike are welcome as well. Here's your chance to bring your significant others and other guy friends to make sure they learn how to keep their hair clean and get their look girl-approved for the summer and thereafter.

There's no better place to find these answers than here.

You can also come and have some drinks and appetizers, thanks to AXE Hair.

While at the tweetup, you'll get to tweet with my official "winggirl," CarlywithAXE, where you can ask her questions regarding dating and style. Can't go wrong with your dating questions answered from the female's point of view.

At the end of the night, there will be a raffle, giving away two (2) 2-hour coaching sessions with Thomas Edwards (valued at $200 each) where you will get the hands-on wingman experience and some solid dating consultation!

You can follow the action by using/searching for the #approved hashtag.

Be sure to check out The Professional Wingman to learn more about Thomas Edwards and his coaching.

And be sure to take a look at AXE Hair's campaign at the AXE Hair Crisis Relief site.

Special thanks to Dillon's for let us hold the event at their venue.

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Style Series – Peacocking vs. Accentuating

Never. Ever. Wear this.This is a continuation of my Style Series. You can check out the others here:

The Importance of Layering
The Real Meaning of Dressing Casual

For years, people have been embracing the concept of peacocking and taking it to a whole different level. From what I remember, it started with Mystery.

He would wear ridiculous things such as a furry hat, goggles, a boa and paint his nails black. Clearly, the objective was to stand out among people at the bar.

Mind you this guy is 6’5”. It somehow worked. He stuck with it and began teaching others the art of peacocking.

Personally, I think that he continues to wear that nonsense now because it’s an association to his brand. Who he is and what he represents won’t be congruent if he doesn’t wear those things, unfortunately.

The point I'm making is he took a bunch of accessories and created a style for himself. Nowadays, you don’t need to wear goggles on your head to look different. Keep in mind my interpretation of what looks good may be different from another's.

But I’d like to think that you trust me enough to know what creates an attractive appearance.

If you are looking to do something about your wardrobe, find one accessory and let it be the thing that makes your outfit more stylish. For example, no one uses pocket squares. Starting using them.

When I used to dress up for work or an event and I knew I was wearing black, I would wear a shirt that would stand out, like a bright red or even the manly pink.

But honestly you can use anything to stand out. If you wear ties normally, there’s a chance to stand out. Hats, ties, sunglasses, scarves, your watch, shoes, socks, even your belt – they all give you a chance to add some personal flare.

A thing that I have noticed lately is that more people are going away from normal cap-toe shoes and going toward very pointy shoes (this trend may be going back to cap-toe). Also, another things that's different is substituting shoes for a fresh pair of Converse.

In the end, it’s a small thing can make you feel better about yourself, get an advantage over everyone else and appeal to more women.

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Style Series - The Real Meaning of Dressing Casual

This is a continuation of my Style Series. You can check out the first post here:

The Importance of Layering

First thing’s first, gentlemen. Dressing casual does not mean that it’s ok to wear sweatpants. That also doesn’t mean that style and creativity goes out of the window either. Casual actually gives you even more options and chances to look your best for whatever occasion it may be.

The importance here is that you can look good no matter what the occasion is.

Obviously, there will be difficult here. You don’t want to show up to a house party in a tux, then again, you don’t want to show up to a black-tie formal in a polo and golf shorts. But take opportunity to do something “cool” to get yourself to stand out wherever you go.

Accessories are good ways to set yourself apart from a crowd. I am starting to get really into hats, despite having so much hair.

Sometimes, you can take something more “dressy” and make it more casual, which I will start to do now that the summer is really here.

But whatever you do, make sure you put in the effort to look good – even if it's "just casual."

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Pride. Determination. Resilience.

Everytime I read this, I get pumped. It'll be a constant reminder for me and it should be for you as well. To get the original version, be sure to check it out at Pickup Evolution. Those guys write REALLY good stuff when it comes to women and personal development.

As I am watching the movie Pride, it made me think about your pursuit. In your pursuit of being better with women and becoming a better man, you need to build a foundation of pride, determination and resilience.

Pride. It is the firm feeling of pure satisfaction from your own achievements or from qualities that are widely appreciated. Take some pride in yourself and what you are looking to accomplish here. Your pride should one of the main things motivating you to push through your comfort zone and become successful in life and with women.

Think about it.

How much pleasure do you get when you’re able to get the number of a very attractive woman? How satisfying is it when a woman tells you that she’s never been with someone like you? How awesome is it when you can wake up and feel like a much improved version of yourself from the day before? Think about those feelings and let them push you forward to help you get to where you want to be.

Determination. It is the firmness of purpose. How bad do you really want this? I mean, seriously. I hear guys say all the time that they want to be better with women. They want to be able to have the confidence to go up to a woman and sweep them off of their feet. I’m sure you all do, but how determined are you? What are you willing to invest in yourself to make this REALLY happen? You must find your reason - your purpose - for wanting this so bad and let them be another motivator for your progression.

There is an end game to each stage in life. This is just another stage.

Resilience. It is the ability to withstand or recover quickly from difficult situations. Rejection is GOING to happen, whether you like it or not. Women WILL put you on the spot just to see how you will react. There will be other guys around who will try to clown you. These things are going to happen. You are going to be in situations that you won’t be prepared for. What actions you take to maintain control of yourself and the reality around you will determine your resiliency. Maintain your composure is a very attractive quality to have and as you go through this stage of your life, you are going to develop your composure with all these difference interactions you will come across.

This is your tripod! This is the foundation that you can leave here with right away. And we all know what happens when you don’t have one leg of a tripod.

Go out there and be the best and don’t settle for ANYTHING less.

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