Introducing the Energy Stimulus Package

You need to just give as much as you can if you want to make the life around you better. It's as simple as that. When it comes down to it, those that live quality lives are the ones that go out so much value - and not necessarily expecting equal value in return.

When you give, people will want to give back to you. In other words, you begin to create an attractive lifestyle.

This can apply to business, social media, relationships, networking and just plain old life.

Are you going to participate in the Energy Stimulus Package?

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Great Articles From Around the Dating Web

Here are some links and articles that I came across throughout the week.

AskMen – Ways to Screw Up a First Kiss – At the end of a date, there is such pressure when it comes to ending the date with a kiss. Although most women do determine whether or not they will sleep with a guy based on the kiss, it’s really not a big deal. But you can certainly screw things for yourself if you’re not being careful. Follow these little tidbits and you’ll be sure to get another kiss.

Kinowear – How to Captivate an Audience – Jae just posted a great article about the different types of communication and how to grab the attention of anyone you talk to.

While we’re at it, he uses a great example – Dane Cook. His video didn’t work so I hit up YouTube and watched a bunch of his material. Let me tell you, the guy is a natural at keep an audience at the edge of their seats, begging for more. Whether it comes to public speaking, story telling, or creating attraction, you can learn a lot from watching Mr. Cook do his thing.

AskMen – Chitchat to Avoid – Guys mess this up all the time. All the time. They finally get to have some “get to know you” conversation and then they talk about things that they probably shouldn’t be telling someone or talking about within 10 minutes of meeting someone. This article talks about that. Pay attention and stick to it.

Powerful Connections – Building Relationships (Long-Term Relationships) – This article talks about why relationship building is hard – for anyone. He gives tips on how to keep relationships interesting and how it’s never wise to put all of your eggs in one basket, at any time.

Thoughtmagnet – Ten Fitness Tips That Will REALLY Change You – This article talks about discipline and pushing yourself. It also talks about 10 ways to become more active and get in better shape. One of the main things that I want to highlight is EATING HEALTHIER.

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News & Events Around the Dating World

Here are some things going on that I highly recommend taking a look at or even going to.

AlphaWomen – You have heard me talk about this site many times and I think it’s a great site for people to check out. Man are not allowed to join but can certainly learn a lot from the powerful content that they produce. This month, they are jam packed with guests on their talk show. Their upcoming schedule has a guest on every other day so be sure to check them out. Some topics include stopping negative thoughts, sexuality, conflict resolution, jump starting your career and much more. Believe me, don’t be fooled. You want to learn more about yourself AND women? Then you should take a look.

Man Panel – Transitioning from Dating to a Relationship – Boston March 27 – Laura Warrell is the organizer behind the Man Panel. It’s been highly regarded as the event women MUST go to. Having started only some months ago, it was quickly gained momentum and is one of the top events to go to at the end of the month. This month’s topic covers everything revolving going from dating to a relationship. I actually will be one of the panelists, so it’s a VERY exciting time for me. In fact, I have been featured on her site as Panelist of the Month! For more information, you can contact me on Twitter or go to the Man Panel site for more details.

The Complete Toolbox Seminar – Las Vegas March 20-22 – I really can’t say enough about this conference. If I wasn’t going to SXSW, then this is where I would be. Pretty much everyone who has broken ground in the seduction and pickup industry will be there and you will get total access to these guys. For the complete breakdown of the seminar, you can check out the Toolbox Seminar site.

Practical Pickup Workshop – San Francisco March 27-28 – If you are in the San Francisco area, there are only 3 spots left in this great bootcamp. Led my Entropy and Doc Holliday, these guys are good people and know how to teach men things other than picking up women. In a weekend, you will learn a great deal from these guys. For more information about what the bootcamp covers you can check out Practical Pickup.

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Back to Square One

We are starting it ALL over again. This time, it's is for real. We are doing it live and we are going ALL out. This podcast will cover everything about dating, love, relationships, attraction, confusion, anxiety and SO much more.

And I'd like to name this podcast something cool. This where you come in. Submit your answers by sending me an email and the best one will get a VERY special prize!

Here is what was covered on this show:

Going to SXSW! Should be ridiculous.

Scot McKay from Edumakaytion talked about why monogamy isn't an option for the seduction community. And I agree. The game has changed.

Different forum posts vary from using women to fill a void to how to talk to a shy person.

For women, I talk about it is important to make a guy feel useful and not used.

A little rusty and have to work out the kinks but in due time, this will be THE podcast to check out for anything.

If you'd like a question answered or would like me to talk about a specific topic, email me.

Follow me on Twitter.

That is all.

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Handling Dating "Red Flags"

When you are at the stage where you are starting to figure out what you want in a woman, when you meet potentials, your mind tends to automatically detect red flags that come up in interaction. Some of these flags come from lessons you’ve learned from previous relationships. Let’s just say that you just don’t want to repeat those mistakes.

That you already know.

But every once in a while, you’ll come across an interesting and attractive woman. She’s stunningly gorgeous and she actually has something resembling a personality. You two vibe pretty well and you can tell she’s interested. But every so often in conversation, you notice your spider-sense tingling about something. Something isn’t right. But you aren’t exactly sure what it is. Now you’re trying to figure out why these red flags coming up.

And then it hits you. Those red flags aren’t glitches. We’re not computers. Something is telling you that this might not be a good idea. These signs are telling you, “This is NOT what you want in a woman. Put down the drink and slowly walk away.” But the more you talk to her, the more you become invested. You begin to see more things about her that you like and you start to ignore those other things that you don’t like because you are interested. Plus, with her finding more about you, you notice she is totally feeling you. So you proceed like those flags aren’t even there.

There is a reason why those flags are up, you know. It’s one thing to notice something small that you don’t like but are willing to deal with. It’s another to see something you absolutely KNOW will be a detriment to your sanity and thus hurt the relationship in the long run. You’ve seen it in the past – probably many times before. What makes you think this time will be different?

I was almost victim to this a few weeks ago, but I was able to figure things out in time. I’ll share details with specifics next week as a follow-up.

If you see yourself falling into the same pattern again ask yourself a few questions – you know, to refresh yourself.

What’s worth pursuing here? Small fling? One-night stand? Long-term relationship?

What about her is making me justify ignoring these flags?

To what extent can I disregard these flags? Or…

What am I going to do to make sure these flags aren’t going to be a problem down the road?

Have these ideas set in your mind and it will direct you in the way you want to go with your interaction. It happens to all of us. I sometimes get caught up in talking to someone I’m interested in and will feel the emotions from these flags and find myself ignoring them and justifying my decisions.*

*these things happen so fast, you may not even notice. That’s why it is always important to slow things down in order for you to have better control of yourself and the situation.


How many of you ignore those red flags? And do you justify or make excuses for those red flags?

Have you ever battled through and extracted from a situation because you ultimately, “knew better?”

What are your methods for preventing yourself from repeating mistakes – as tempting as it may be to give in sometimes?

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5 Reasons Why Men May Be Hesitant to Get into an Exclusive Relationship

I wanted to elaborate more on each point, but I think keeping it short and to the point is good enough. This list was also posted the Man Panel as I am featured as this month's Panelist of the Month.

Thank you Laura!

1. “Is she the one? And if she is, my life is over.” Over in the sense of predictability & repetition. Something we all are afraid of in one way or another.

2. Monogamy. Having only one sexual partner. Will a man be certain that one woman will satisfy him sexually over an extended period of time?

3. Isolation. Feeling as though they won’t be able to see their friends as often. A lot less weekends out with the guys.

4. Responsibility. Decisions become harder when you have to think of someone other than yourself.

5. Laziness. Subtle things such as feeling as though you have to call every day, constantly letting her know of your whereabouts, getting permission to do certain things, etc. are general turn-offs for men and are continuously seen as the “work” men must do in a relationship.

What are some other reasons that weren't mentioned here? What are some things that you have noticed?

For guys, what are your reasons for women not wanting to become exclusive?

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Great Articles From Around the Dating Web

Every week, I am going to give more love to some other sites that provide good information that will help you. They are just going to be links and articles that I came across during that particular week.

Attractology – Six Habits of a Good Wingman – Now you remember my article about what makes a quality wingman. These six tips are quick concise and on the money. If you are looking for a wingman for anything – these qualities go outside of just dating – then you should pay read this.

The Art of Manliness – Dressing for Life’s Big Events – This is an interesting article about what certain terms mean and what to wear. They cover everything from Black Tie events to religious ceremonies to first dates. This will give you the basics of every event and how to look appropriate at them.

Sinns of Attraction – Lifestyle Design: Part 1 – This article talks about how to set up your life to get more out of it. This making your life the way you want. The only way to do that is to figure out what the hell you want. He provides a good exercise as to how to figure that out and much more.

Edumakaytion – Why Monogamy Isn’t An Option To Most of the Seduction Community – someone sent in a very interesting Facebook message to Scot McKay about how the seduction community promotes a polyamorous lifestyle and how most women are looking for a monogamous boyfriend. He addresses the issues here, pretty well. I will talk about it more in my video this week because I think there can be a lot to talked about.

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Challenge, Respond, Change, Push, Have Faith & Rock Out

I listen to all comments and that helps me mold Project Infinity in a way to help everyone else. ALL of them. You want to learn about fueling the fire, finding/having faith and changing the game to overcome your challenges? I'd listen to this. It's the principle that matters and part of the reason why I help others.

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