The Secret To Being A Sexy Woman


Confidence is sexy.These posts are based on the reality TV series, Tough Love: Miami. I don’t comment on what happened in the show. Instead, I talk about what women can learn from each episode’s theme. You can check out my previous series here.

If you missed other posts, check them out below:

Tough Love #1: How to Create A Positive First Impression

Tough Love #2: Dating in the Digital Age

Tough Love #3: Inner & Outer Beauty

Tough Love #4: Flirting

Tough Love #5: Being Sexy 

The misconception some women have is sexiness has a lot to do with what they wear and how they look.

In fact, it has less to do with how you look as it does with your attitude.

You can LOOK amazing but if you have a shitty attitude, no man will want to be with you.

Think about when guys talk about “swagger.” I remember saying to a friend, “It’s never about what you rock. It’s always about how you rock it.”

For women, it’s similar. Remember this. Sexy is about confidence, positivity and simplicity.

Men gravitate to a woman who feels good in whatever she wears and has a positive energy around her. Now you can understand why guys go CRAZY over seeing a woman in sweatpants or in a football jersey.

You are allowing your personality to show and you don't care what others think. If you feel comfortable, it shows in your body language and that can drive men WILD.

Think of it this way.

There’s a HUGE difference between what women think is sexy and what men think is sexy.

At the end of the day, a man wants to see a woman feel confident no matter what the circumstance.

The key? Be positive, don’t try too hard and keep things simple.