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Some Twitter Fun

This morning one of my friends, David Gerzof, a professor at Emerson College, appeared on Fox Boston morning news to talk about who people should follow on Twitter. I'm excited to say I've made the list with friend, Steve Garfield, and potential friend, Chad Ochocinco.

I'm always on Twitter, interacting with people, giving quick 140-characted sized snippets of advice, and sharing interesting content I typically don't share here. I highly recommend you follow me on Twitter.

Just another value-add to your dating arsenal.

Review of Café 47

Address: 47 Massachusetts Ave (at Marlborough), Boston, MA 02115

Website: http://www.cafe47.net/

Cost: $

Special: Great Date Spot

This place is a gem in the list of great date spots and great spots overall in Boston. It’s simple in that it’s small and isn’t elaborate. But it’s a well put-together place. Beth, the owner, has put a TON of work into making this place a fun spot and I think she’s successful. What makes it great is that it serves two of my favorite things: wine and pizza. Their pizza is REALLY good. I personally haven’t had anything else but their pizzas but I’m okay with that. It’s THAT good. I feel pretty certain to think that the other food they offer is just as good. They offer both a reasonably-priced lunch and dinner menu.

Their wine selection is pretty extensive considering the type of place and it’s just enough variety that you can find an appropriate pairing with what you eat. Meaning, if you don’t really know much about wine, you can order something from the list and feel good about it. Here’s a tip: ask the waitress what wine they would recommend with what food.

The intimate setting provides a fun experience for you and your date. There’s even a small bar toward the back with a couple of TVs if you just want to chill out and have a couple drinks. I got a chance to talk with the owner and a few of the staff. They are all very cool people that want to make sure you have a fun time there. It’s a true neighborhood bar and a rarity in the Boston area. I give this place an A (94).

Pros
Good food
Intimate setting
Great date spot
Great staff
Neighborhood bar

Cons
Some can complain that it’s too small

If you have any questions about the place, feel free to check out their site:

http://www.cafe47.net/

Midnight Review of Styx

NOTE: mobile post

Address: 35 Stanhope St.

Who cones here: 20-somethings

Best nights to come: Saturday

Special: good food menu on certain days.

Price: $$

Waiting in line for the bathroom, it almost makes sense to blog about Styx, the new 33. For those who don't know, 33 has shut down & will be replaced. 33 had a home in my heart so hearing about its closing was not good. Although, I have to say, Styx, being right next door, isn't so bad, if you have a small party.

I'd categorize this venue in the "club" section. Loud music, lots of dancing & a variety of people. But being in a very small place (think the size of your average master bedroom with an extension for a bar), it's not hard to meet people. Confidence is a must here, though, as you must speak up & exude good body language.

Note: When you use the bathroom, it sounds like the walls are going to crumble with all the bass in this place. I saw a crack spread from the ceiling. Don't worry though. It's normal.

This place is perfect for a group party. You won't need to call to reserve. Just show up. Be warned, there is a cover ranging from 10 to 15 bucks.

Overall, I give this place a 79 (C+).

I'll be more active in talking about more places when I'm in the place. Let me know what you think in the comments or send me a tweet.

Now, back to your regularly scheduled madness.

Oh, Valentine’s Day

As I’ve said before, I’m not a big Valentine’s Day person because it’s so commercialized. If I’m going to do something for my lady, I’m going to do it because I WANT to, never because I HAVE to. Having said that, there are guys out there who STILL feel the pressure of having to go over the top and buy gifts for their ladies. Most guys don’t even know what to get besides the usual flowers, candy and “let’s go to dinner at an expensive restaurant where they fill to capacity and it’s so loud, you can’t hear me and the food isn’t even that good anyway.”

Fortunately, Victoria’s Secret decided to do something a little different for all of the guys out there who were lost.

Last night, I had some free time and went down to the Secret store at Patriot Place at Gillette Stadium. Thanks to Gamestop, they had video game stations to play some of the latest and coolest games. Bar Louie was VERY nice to offer root beer, mini sliders, buffalo chicken bites and other goodies. Victoria’s Secret associates were there to help guys figure out what they wanted. I chatted with a few of them to find out how they viewed the "holiday."

They also gave me a couple cool ideas for the weekend. Unfortunately, I won’t be around for them...so I’ll fill you in on the action.

I’ll have that info for you later today!

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The Doctor Is In

I am so happy to be the "cover" story for blast magazine's February issue!

If you ever wanted to know the inside scoop of what I do, how I do it and why, this is the article to read. Special thanks to Erica Marcus for interviewing me and writing the story. I still think it's crazy that I have a photo gallery :P

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Your Guide to: minibar

There’s no hiding it. I LOVE minibar. I have many friends that I hang out with there, I’ve even shot videos and make no mistake; people can have a blast there.

From what I’ve heard (from an anonymous manager), minibar has been named Best Pickup Bar in Boston. Makes sense since it’s such a great social scene and you can REALLY meet anyone at any given time.

In preparation for LoveNation’s Launch Party that I’m having there tomorrow night, I have decided to give you a guide to how to handle minibar if you go there by yourself or with friends.

Overview: minibar gets it’s name from not the size of the bar but the size of the bottles that they serve at tables. Overall, there are 6 lounge “areas” and a bar that can hold upwards of 12 people. There is also another area as you can in the picture to the left that can seat 6 people.

Positioning: I think in every place, there are “dead zones” where you’ll have almost no chance of meeting people. Here are the “dead zones” at minibar: 

The near corner of the bar (seen in the picture) 
The right lounge area in the picture (even if you’re with another person) 
The left side of the lounge area in the middle of the picture (behind a “mini” wall) 
The lounge area by the front door (facing the bar). 

If you’re in a very small group and are looking to socialize, don’t go to these areas. These areas are for people who are in larger groups and are just looking to hang out amongst themselves.

The “money” areas give you the best chance of meeting people. At minibar: 

The far corner of the bar in the picture 
The middle area of the bar. 

The most traffic will walk through there and by standing, it’ll give you the best chance to see people (no matter where they are), make eye contact and make your move. Just be sure to let the bartenders by when they have to send drinks to table areas. That area can get crowded rather quickly.

Best times to go: Happy hour (Monday-Thursday 5-7), Tuesday (DJ nights), Friday and Saturday nights; and of course, THIS TUESDAY NIGHT!

Drink of choice: If you’re a beer drinker, keep it classy with a Narragansett. If you like wine, order a cabernet. If you’d rather something a little more stiff, grab a Belvedere and tonic.

I hope you get a chance to check it out but more importantly, come to the party tomorrow night!

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Party Time!

Here's the public invitation for LoveNation's Boston Launch Party!

RSVP here and each guest will get a mini bottle of Rosé (while supplies last)!

Special thanks to Martini & Rossi!

Come hang out with me, my co-host Laurie and let's have some fun. I don't get to go out much anymore (unless I'm working) so if I must, why not make it an event?!

Hope to see you there!

Tonight: Laurel Bar & Grill Wine Tasting

It seems like every two weeks, Laurel B&G does a wine event that gets a good crowd. This week, it’s a wine seminar featuring Michael Wolfson of Ruby Wine Importers. You get to sample four Bubblies from Italy, Cali, South Africa and France.

The event starts at 6:30PM.

Wine tastings are great social events and worth the admission. You get to easily start conversation with people who share the same interests as you do.

Line of the evening: “How do you feel about THIS one?”

The cost for this event is $29.99 (plus tax and gratuity). Included will be 4 tasting plates for each wine.

For more information and to see future wine events, you can check out the Laurel Bar & Grill site. Can’t say you have nothing to do tonight.

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