2010 = The Year of Action

And Hustle.

There is SO much content out there about dating today. I am FAR from being the only source and I’m sure I’m not the only one you read either. The problem that I’ve come across with many people that I meet is that they all read almost all there is about relationships, dating and sex, yet, there’s usually one thing that has prevented them really breaking ground and having successful dating lives.

Taking action.

Sure there are multiple elements of that phrase, but when it comes down to it, you’re either doing something or you’re doing nothing. Last night, I opened up a fortune cookie and this is the message that was inside.

“Better to do something imperfectly than do nothing perfectly.”

There is a lot of truth in that statement.

Gary Vaynerchuk even put out a video about going out and just grabbing it (love the quick last line about how it applies to guys and girls).


In 2010, we have the world at our fingertips more than ever. There’s so much transparency out there; we have the ability to watch someone make mistakes, see the consequences and learn everything we need to know before we take our own action. 

Real-life case study: reality shows.

The reason why there are so many reality shows like Tough Love is not purely for entertainment. Well, maybe it is. But they’re making entertainment out of the fact that it’s hard to find love and people are willing to do whatever it takes to find it.

In the end, they’re at least doing something about it.

What are YOU doing?

Are you figuring out what’s preventing you from dating people? Are you asking friends? Are you creating an action plan for how you’ll improve your dating life in 2010? Are you following through with your action plan? If you don’t even know where to start, are you looking for someone to help you? A friend? A professional?

I could write another post about hustle and the importance of really wanting it.

Most of my blog posts this year will talk about having action items designed to help your dating life. When it comes down to it, that’s what you’ll need to do in order to see the changes you’re looking for in 2010. People say this is the year of opportunity. There are opportunities ALL the time.

Make 2010 the year of ACTION.

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