2012: The Year of Momentum


This path to success is a representation and should not be taken.I have some special news to share with you on tomorrow and thinking about the news, I thought about what this year will represent.


Last year, I went on about how important it is for you to hustle and work hard for what you want. And all of that is true.

The reality is you are in control and you know that -- but working hard isn’t enough. There may be two reasons why your dating life isn’t where you want it to be.

Lack of direction and lack of action.

When it comes to action, you’re on your own. There’s enough free material on this blog for you to get exactly what you want out of your dating life.

But for all of those who are already taking action but aren’t sure of their direction, this will be the year I help get you on the right track.

I get asked all the time, “Thomas, how can you go from being terrible around women to having an incredible relationship with one?” Or, “how can you go from Point A to Point B?”

First of all, if you signed up for the Wingman Labs, you saw an email that explained why a “Point B” doesn’t exist in dating -- and in life.

Secondly, the journey and your character evolution will define your results, not the actual results. I’ll get more into this tomorrow.

The thirdly, the only way you can create the ideal life you want is to generate momentum, filled with smaller victories and learning experiences you can “recycle” and build upon, supplemented with an increasingly confident state of mind.

I’m here to tell you there are NO shortcuts, NO magic pills, NO “get laid quick” schemes that exists that will help your dating life. If you’re looking for that, go somewhere else.

But there are specific, measurable strategies you can test and use to make sure you’re on the right path and when there is success, you can leverage it to propel you forward to the next stage of your life.

Ever know one of those people who constantly “get lucky?” Or one of your friends who always have “good things happen to them?”

I don’t believe in the general concept of “being lucky.” I believe people make their own luck and it happens when action meets opportunity.

There are 100 people who will walk by a $20 bill on the ground. But only 1 person will pick it up. It doesn’t make him lucky. He had the awareness and the mindset that allowed him to see the $20 and pick it up.

And people generally think you need to have the mindset in order to have the awareness to “get lucky.”

They're so wrong...

You need the awareness first, THEN the mindset will come. That’s why having measurable strategies will help you become more aware of your journey to having a better dating life.

Content on the blog will no longer have a “flow.” Some days, I’ll be talking about creating a lifestyle conducive to meeting women. Other days, I’ll talk about how to recover from a breakup, which seems to be the topic most requested as of late. And others, I’ll talk about why worrying about the “bad boys” is the biggest waste of time on this planet.

I could spend months talking about that one topic alone.

There are specific things when it comes to dating that people want the answers to. I've made a promise to myself that I'd answer as many of them in as much detail as possible.

Look forward to a better dating life. Because this is the year it’s going to happen.