Frequently Asked Questions

If you're here, you chose to have a Coaching experience with our team! To help you get to know us more, we had these questions answered by Founder, Thomas Edwards.

What is The Professional Wingman and why should I trust you?

The Professional Wingman helps single professionals develop better social skills to improve their dating lives. We do this by going out, acting as your Wingman, seeing what's preventing them from having successful social and romantic interactions, and giving you real-time feedback. Nearly 6 years and thousands of clients later, I lead a small team of highly-trained coaches who are here to help our clients achieve the success they're looking for.

How'd you get into this? Where does your experience come from?

It's quite a long story, but it's a good one. You can read about it by clicking here.

What's your success rate?

Success is defined by the client based on their goals. I am proud to say we have nearly 50 clients who are married, about 50% of our clients are in committed relationships and a 99% client satisfaction rate. It's important to keep in mind not all of my clients come to us not looking for a relationship for various reasons, including recovering from a previous one or moving into a new city – but remember that we do not work with clients who are just looking to get laid.

Who are your clients?

Over the years, I've worked with doctors, teachers, lawyers, programmers, engineers, actors, politicians, DJs, and people of many occupations. Most of my clients are single, professionally successful men who live a healthy lifestyle and are social (as in, they go out with their friends and meet people), but when they see an attractive woman, they either don't know how or have trouble with making a romantic connection that could lead to a long-term relationship. In regards to age, my youngest client was 18 years old and my oldest, 64. Social skills is something everyone can work on to have a better dating life and control your future.

Where are your clients?

My clients are from all over the world, but the majority live in the United States. I've worked with clients from Boston to Miami, and D.C. to LA.

How does it work?

You can read a little about how the process work by clicking here.

Will this work for me?

I can't promise anything – that wouldn't be realistic. What I can say that when I choose my clients to work with, I'm looking for very specific things. Two of those things are a willingness to try and a commitment to personal growth. Without those two things, you'll have no shot of having any success in your dating life. I personally, believe everyone deserves and has a shot at love, as long as they're willing to do what it takes to be the best lovable version of themselves.

But if you truly want to know if this will work you, once your application is approved, then we will meet.

Do you change people's personalities or can I still be me?

Your DNA is what makes you not only unique, but GREAT. But are you projecting the best parts of your DNA out there for women to love?

We help our clients find a different perspective on how they can best attract the women they want. The only thing I require is they have to have an open mind. Some things I teach may be different or even difficult at first and that’s because it’s something my clients are not used to. They are also not used to women gravitating toward and being completely attracted to them. So if that’s what you want, then trying new things won’t hurt and in fact, it’s necessary. I'm are there to help you reach your goals while staying true to who you are. There’s no better feeling than finally having this part of your life together - on your terms.

Do you work with women?

Yes, in fact over 25% of our clients are women.

What is the investment to work with The Professional Wingman?

We customize our programs to each individual person. The investment for our programs depend on the amount of coaching and support you'll need, but it would be wise not to expect to pay a small fee for something in your life that require significant change.

Is there any long-term commitment?

Improving your dating life isn't an overnight process. We don't offer or promise "get rich quick" schemes. All of our programs require a multi-month commitment. We find our best success stories are with clients who spend anywhere from 3 months to as long as a 2 years. In the end, long-term results require long-term development.

Is there a trial? Can I try it out to see if it works for me?

"Trying it out" is the complete opposite of a commitment. We purposely interview every person whose application we accept to make sure they are ready to commit to long-term change. If you ask for a trial, it tells us you're not serious about wanting to change your life, which makes us question if we're a good fit to work together. Of course we understand it can be scary to commit to something new and not know if it's going to work out. But after talking with us, you'll realize, we wouldn't be doing this if we didn't know it worked. And our track record proves it.

So NO, we do not do trials and you can't try it out.

Why give me a complimentary coaching experience? Why not charge for this? What's in it for you?

As quoted in my "How It Works" page,

I personally want to help as many people as possible and whether or not we end up working together, I want you to walk away with advice you can use immediately. At the same time, it's important to know these programs are not for everyone. Before I can accept you into my program, I look at four very important things. 

  1. You must be willing to do what it takes to evolve into the man women will be attracted to and be open-minded to the transformations that will take place in the process. 
  2. These programs are not cheap. When you invest in me, you will get you results, guaranteed to last for the rest of your life. These higher price points allow me to be more selective about who I work with and ensures those I bring on are as committed to their success as I am. 
  3. You must have a positive attitude toward women. This lets me know you're ready to find a fulfilling relationship with an attractive, compatible, quality woman. If you’re looking for one-night stands, random hookups, or have a poor attitude toward women, I will not work with you. No exceptions.
  4. During our initial coaching experience, I want you to know what’s necessary to help you achieve success -- with or without me.

I hope that by the time we're done talking, you'll feel you've gotten a ton of value and would consider becoming a client. If not, that's totally fine. As long as I can provide simple strategies you can use today that will improve your dating life – with or without me – I'll fulfill my mission.

Any other unanswered questions? Ask me!

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I'm ready to chat with you!

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