It’s been a while since my last blog post but with all the things that have happened — and happening — today is all about self-promoting and adding value. Let’s add value first.
It seems like every time I’m out, someone recognizes and immediate wants me to diagnose and treat their dating issue. While I love that people recognize me and trust that I’ll give them the advice they need to change their dating life, their approach is the equivalent of going to a party, meeting a doctor, and showing your rash.
I don’t think showing your rash is a good idea – unless you have an appointment.
So while I was thinking of an alternative solution to this, I thought back to what I used to do. I remember days working at the hotel, doing “free advice Fridays” on Twitter, giving dating advice in 140 characters. It was a lot of fun and many of you walked away with solid advice. So I’m bringing it back.
Introducing the Wingman Happy Hour
Every Friday at noon, I’ll be on Twitter, giving out advice based on the questions you ask. You can ask anything from how to approach someone — or BE approached — to how to effectively bring up important conversations with your partner (ex: finances, previous relationships, religion, putting dishes in the dishwasher, etc.).
You can ask questions publicly but just tweeting @ThomasHEdwards or if you want to ask a more personal question, you’ll have to DM me — just remember, if I’m not following you, you’ll have to request a follow before I can get the message.
I expect a lot of great, deep, and funny questions. And will there be drinking? It’s likely. It’s Friday and 5PM somewhere, right?
Be sure to follow me and the hashtag #WHH so you can see what questions and advice is being given.
Now, on to the next! Many ladies have asked if I offer female-specific coaching programs. The answer has always been yes. Just like I go out with men and see what prevents them from making connections with women, I do the same vice-versa.
While the women whom I’ve worked with have had a lot of success, I still got requests for something more hands off that can still be just as effective with understanding and connecting with men. So, here’s what I’m going to test out.
Introducing the Find Your Man Group Coaching Program
I’m launching a 6-week group coaching program specifically for women where you’ll chat with me each week and learn:
- When are the best times to meet men
- How to get more guys to approach and start conversations with you
- What to do to get men to choose you without changing your personality
- Flirting strategies to get men sexually attracted to you
- The best way to get guys to ask for your number -- and follow up
- And more.
Some of the time we spend together will be me introducing and explaining strategies to you but what was most requested was to have a ton of Q & A where I can answer questions specific to each of you. With the level of interaction I’ll be bringing to this program, this will be without a doubt, one of the deepest programs I’ll ever create for women.
Because this is something I’m trying out, I’m only offering six (6) spots. I’m not 100% sure if this will be something I’ll want to do long-term and I want to make sure that I can effectively help each woman in this program.
The program starts Tuesday, April 8th. To learn more and to sign up, click here.
Let’s build some momentum for what I’m hoping will be the arrival of warmer weather.
And now for shameless self-promotion: Check out this New York Times piece featuring this guy. So pumped about that, I've been posting it everywhere. Can you blame me?