The Professional Wingman®

We help singles develop better social skills to improve their dating lives through real-time coaching in social environments.

How to Have the Best Social Life

If you are looking to achieve the type of social lifestyle you've always wanted, then take a look at the following 12 points.

If you implements these ideas, you'll find success quicker than you think.

Achieve a quality state of mind

Focus on maintaining a positive and energetic attitude while ignoring internal and external negativity. At the end of the day, all you have is yourself. Own your psyche.

Take care of your body

It’s a direct reflection, not only of how you take of yourself but potentially the other people in your life -- you better believe there are women who think about this. You have no excuse for not looking as good as you possibly can as they are the easiest improvements you can make.

Trim the negative fat

Get rid of the Debbie Downers in your life. This is non-negotiable. Spending time with those kinds of people says you’re complacent with life, enjoy people holding you back from being successful, and have zero ambition.

“Trim the negative fat.” Tweet this.

Hang out with people who are better than you

Success breeds success. Plus, their positive attitudes will rub off on you, especially when you try to emulate their strategies for your own success.

Enjoy the journey to appreciate the destination

You really wanted her number and didn’t get it. Don’t let that distract you from meeting someone else who really likes you. That said, don’t focus so much on the plan that you forget the goal. Women can sense lack of appreciation of the dating process.

Own your success

If you point to anything other than yourself, you'll never be able to replicate your success.

Spend time outside of your comfort zone each day

Because that’s where the magic happens.

Stop waiting for the perfect time

The only perfect time that exists will always be the moment you make the move.

Celebrate your failures

They will be the keys to your ultimate success. Take some time to understand why you failed, so you can take in and appreciate when you succeed. And on that topic,

Appreciate every success you have

It won’t happen often and success can be taken away from you at a moment’s notice. Taking life for granted is not attractive.

Avoid “shoulding” on yourself

Goals and success is very important to have the life you really want so don’t start off your journey by saying, “I should” or “I’ll try.” Turn these to “I will,” or “I must.”

Action equals success

Every time you don’t take action, not only do you fail but you also miss a chance at learning from the experience.

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