Valentine's Day = Best Day of the Year for Singles

This post is by Eathan from I Date White. He is a single, hard working and dedicated father of 2 sons. Living in Dallas for over 15 years, as a black man, he dates white women about 98% of the time. He talks about not only about interracial dating but interracial relationships, parenting challenges and other topics as well. He's a great guy to get to know and has a wealth of knowledge when it comes to dating outside the race.

As his first post, I welcome him to Project Infinity.


As many of you know Valentine’s Day is arriving soon. It’s publicized as the holiday for couples. It’s the holiday for lovers. I can’t agree more. It’s one of the best holidays to go out and meet new women. I know that might surprise some of you, but it’s true.

There population of single and divorced people is growing every year. I’ve never thought of Valentine’s Day as a holiday for couples. Valentine’s Day is the new singles holiday. I’ve noticed over the last few years more and more bars and clubs are organizing events for the dateless singles. It’s the most popular hook up night of the year. Last year it was an hour wait to get into a local club on Valentine’s Day. When I arrived, it felt like New Year’s Eve. The dance floor was packed. The VIP was hot. The party was nonstop until last call.

Since Valentine’s Day is on a weekend this year, you have plenty of time to prepare. Make sure you are wearing one of your favorite colognes on. Women love a good smelling man. The number one thing women notice about men besides their appearance is their fragrance. I’ve always referred to it as Liquid Sex. Don’t forget to carry some gum or mints. (No explanation needed) Always plan for the best and carry condoms.

Success comes to those who plan for it.

One of the other things to remember is choosing the right club or bar. I normally go to bars that I know will have music and dancing. As long as there is dancing there will be some type of flirting and playful interaction. Most women will be drinking and dancing. This is a perfect combination to talk, flirt, and make your move. If there is no guy standing there, they are single women.

The main thing to remember when going out on Valentine’s Day is that small things will go along ways. For example, once I find the woman that I’m interested in; I will buy her a drink and ask if she wants to be my Valentine. This might sound cheesy, but if you are having a good time she will laugh and say yes. If she says no, don’t worry about it. Move on to the next one that says yes.

Valentine’s Day should be on the top of your list to meet hot women. Make sure you’re ready for the fireworks. Women don’t want to admit it, they hate being alone for this holiday. So go out, have fun, and the hot women will follow.

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